Why Some White Guys like Asian Girls

•December 9, 2008 • Leave a Comment
There is one primary reason that white guys and Asian and black guys too, are attracted to beautiful Asian girls.

It’s the packaging. The package, and the stereotypes conveyed by the package are what hold the major appeal.

They’re generally slim, and that means slim all over. You seldom see an Asian girl who’s top-heavy, or bottom heavy, or particularly curved out of proportion in any way.

The shape and angle of their eyes produces an illusion of flirtatiousness and subservience or submissiveness – they are permanently, whether they choose to or not, looking from beneath lashes

The shape of their face tends to to be rounded, with taut skin, and their features tend to be small and delicate within that rounded frame – to the extent of being doll-like, when cosmetics are used to emphasize.

They are petite. You are not going to find an Asian girl who towers over anyone. Unlike some larger boned structured girls from the west.

They tend to have high, even fluting, voices in some instances the sounds of their voices in native tongue can almost sound of music.

What this adds up to is an overall impression of being childlike, and not in a way that calls to a pedophile response, particularly; because they are usually clearly adult, but in a way that stimulates the natural/socialized response of a “strong” male to protect what is apparently fragile. An Asian girl may be hard as nails – just like her Caucasian counterpart – but her combination of size, smooth skin, slimness, upward glance and childlike voice will make her present as intensely “feminine” in the old damsel in distress fashion, right before she beats the shit out of you on the living room floor. This is especially true, of course, in girls raised within Asian cultures, which emphasize specifically feminine behaviors’ for women, but is also evident in Asian girls raised in Western traditions.

This is not meant as any kind of derogatory judgment of men, or Asian girls, but an analysis of the artifice of nature. The physical peculiarities of the young Asian female are such that she tends to present to men partly as a little girl – and nothing is more guaranteed to arouse a tender, protective response than a girl-child — and partly as a flirt, sexually available and challenging but ultimately non-threatening. It’s hardly surprising, then, that men are attracted.

You’ll note that throughout, I’ve used the word “girl”, rather than “woman”. This is because with age, the particular attraction of Asian over other races of women fades fast. When the illusion of childishness disappears, so does the intense aura of femininity, slimness becomes gauntness and tendency to lack curves can often lead to an almost genderless appearance in middle-age and beyond, where other races of women retain a greater level of feminine allure (Yoko Ono, as compared to Susan Sarandon, for example).

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Want to Become Irresistible to Women ?

•May 23, 2008 • 3 Comments

Cute Asian Girls reading about menAre you a believer in the incredible power of words? The following is a simple self confidence technique that really works to increase your confidence and attractiveness. Give this a go and see how you can really increase your sex appeal.

Have you noticed that women are turned off men that lack confidence? They find such men just not attractive, men that are nervous, stammer or are putting on an act. Most women are very sensitive to this type of thing. Good confidence is real turn on to a woman.

The more a woman is 10 out of 10, the more insecure most men will become.

Most women seem to be attracted to a strong masculine but emotionally expressive man, which allows them to surrender and let go, especially in sex. They want to feel safe. The bad news is that if you go on and meet your date with your 10 out of 10 woman in a nervous state, she’ll smell it a mile away. That is assuming you got her to say yes to a date in the first place.

There is a deep biological basis to this. Women are child bearers and have nurturing qualities that have a genetic basis. Look at the differences in young girls and boys play to see this. Young boys play war games and girls play marriage games. Women want a strong man to provide and help look after the children in a stable relationship.

Really hot women usually test men in some way to see if they are up to the challenge and who do not fold like a wimp. One way men fold is to break the eye contact with a new woman when first meeting. Also, a hot woman gets asked out many times a day. Usually a man will say, “Gee you are beautiful, can I ask you out?”

Imaging been approached like that many times a day and you can see why the attractive woman will just turn away with such a lame approach. I have also noticed the power of a two letter word. Men that say the simple word NO will be rare around very sexy women. Most men are too scared and needy to just say no to things that their woman wants but they do not want.

So what are the 7 words that help to make you more irresistible to women? These words are very useful when you have a hot date lined up and want to feel more confident and at ease.

So before you meet your date or even before you ask her out say these words…

I love myself and I am irresistible.

Now this might just seem like positive thinking but if you say this many times each day, you will start to feel this way. Think of how many times a day you put yourself down in some way by some sort of negative thinking, especially around hot women. It is important to do the exercise each day for at least a week.

When repeating this affirmation, it is very important to really feel in your body how an irresistible man would be. How would he stand and talk and what would his body language be. How would he engage the women by his eye gaze? Really start to feel in your body what an irresistible man is like.

When you repeat this self confidence technique each day your body will actually learn and feel what an irresistible man is. When you are feeling like this in your body, women will be attracted to you and not even know why. If you really love yourself, women will feel this and feel you will be able to love them too.

Relationships will become more about giving and less about neediness. The result is magic when two come together just to give and love. Long, loving relationships are the result. When you love in freedom and really give your partner total permission to be herself or himself, they will never leave you.

Another way to create this feeling of self-love is to imagine back in your past when you were totally successful with a women. We all have something from our past when we felt on top of the world and this radiated out. When we want to feel powerful, just turn your mind back to this situation and imagine in again. Again try to feel what it felt like in your body. Breathe it in to your belly.

I hope this simple self confidence technique will help you increase your self-confidence and confidence and lead to more dating success.

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The behavior of women and what they want.

•June 4, 2007 • Leave a Comment

Sexy women and their needs   The behavior of women is as much of a mystery to men as that of men is to women. However, one thing is certain. The women love to be wooed. They want to be pursued. They want to be courted. They want men to try and win their affection. It’s a great psychological game that both men and women play. The winners enjoy it; the losers end up wondering what went wrong.

To end up as winner men need to understand what women want. Here is a list of seven qualities that every woman expects to see in their men:

1. Well groomed
Do women pay attention to the way a man is dressed?
Do women want men to open doors for them?

Just as men like their women to be pretty, women like their men to be well groomed. They expect their men to be courteous, well behaved and well mannered. Among other things, they expect them to know the social graces. They also expect them to be well dressed, and in tune with the fashion of the day. Men who are loud or bawdy are unlikely to win the attention of sensitive women. The same applies to those men who don’t pay sufficient attention to the way they look.

2. Good listener
Should men do what women want?
Listen carefully to what a woman says

All women want their men to pay attention to what they are saying. Men may not agree with their thinking but they should not make the mistake of looking bored or causal. They must pay attention, even if they don’t intend to do what their women want. The very fact that their point of view was considered before a decision was taken is enough to make the women happy. It is the basis of a strong relationship.

3. Good in bed
What do women want in bed?
Do women like to be forced?
How can women be made happy?

Every woman wants her man to be good in bed. They want to be aroused, and to be sexually fulfilled. The relationship has to be equal in the bed. The man must make an honest effort to fulfill the sexual needs of his women He should, however, not take advantage of a relationship. But he should respect those days when the woman wants to stay off. Women don’t like to be pushed into sex unless they are in a mood to do so. They would much rather prefer being cajoled and cuddled instead of being rushed into sex.

4. Honest and sincere
Do women want to know everything about their men?
Should men tell everything to women?

Two qualities that women value in their men are honesty and sincerity. They don’t want their men to cheat on them or to hold back anything from them. They would like to be equal partners in both the joys and sorrows of their men. Very often men try to hold back their problems related to work or their finances. This is not a good policy. Women feel more wanted and involved when their men take them into confidence. Men should also not try to delude women into false notions. They must gently inform them of their problems without being blunt or cruel. No woman wants to be told that she is ugly, fat or dumb. But, at the same time, they would not like their men to lie to them about their looks.

5. Stable career
How important is financial stability?
Are women after successful men?

Women want stability in their lives. They don’t want to be in a situation where they are forced to scrounge for favors. They would like their men to take care of all basic necessities of life. They would therefore prefer men who are successful and well organized. However, this does not mean that they want to hook the rich and the well placed. This is a wrong notion. Money and success alone is not enough to satisfy a woman.

6. Love for surprises
Should men give lavish gifts to win the love of women?
Gifts that women cherish the most

No woman wants to be tied to home and children. She would like some excitement in her life. This is where men need to be imaginative and thoughtful. The surprises need not be big; they can be as simple as enjoying an evening at the theatre, followed by a dinner at her favorite restaurant or it can be driving down to a resort at the weekend. The joy is multiplied if these bonuses come unannounced.

7. Intelligent and witty
Are witty men more charming?
How does intelligence matter in a relationship?

Women like their men to charm them. They would like them to be intelligent and witty, who can liven up the evenings and make a room come alive. Men who are dull and boring or too obsessed with their own musings are unlikely to enchant women. Women like men who are willing to chat with them on their wavelength.

Sex Positions For The Best Sex Ever

•May 31, 2007 • 4 Comments

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Popular imagery can make us all feel inferior and inadequate when it comes to getting into bed and making love. Men “should” be studs who thrust away for hours until their lover collapses in a moaning exhausted heap, after of course she’s had five mind-blowing orgasms in a row. Women “should” be moaning goddesses who come as their man thrusts deep into them while he holds them firmly and takes them to ecstasy. At least, that’s what you might think if you get your ideas of lovemaking from most romantic movies.

(If you get your ideas about sex from porn films, then you might have an even more unrealistic view of sex. Men with nine inch erections dispassionately using women for their own pleasure is definitely not normal.)

The truth, of course, as many of us suspect from our own experience of sex, is that most men come quite quickly, and many don’t know how to control their ejaculation – or they’ve long since given up trying to – while most women never come at all during vaginal intercourse. That may be hard to believe; maybe you even think there’s something wrong with you if you’re a man who can’t make love for ages or you’re a woman who can’t come during intercourse, but the research confirms these things are normal.

One survey, by http://www.VulvaVelvet.org revealed that less than 20% of women (i.e. 1 woman in 5) always expects to come during intercourse without any additonal clitoral stimulation. Other surveys have produced similar results: about 20 years ago, Shere Hite’s research showed that only 26% of women were able to reach orgasm during intercourse without clitoral stimulation. Most of the rest never did, and then only if they had a helping hand on their clitoris. And nothing seems to have changed as time has gone by!

However, maybe this is missing the point. Maybe we should be asking, “Does this matter?” I guess the answer depends on what each woman wants. If what she actually wants is to have sex last longer, for it to involve more touching, carressing, oral sex and intimacy before penetration, and to have one or more orgasms during this time, then the solution lies in her man taking a different approach to sex. If, however, what she wants is to have an orgasm during vaginal intercourse, then she needs a sex position that is more likely to deliver it – and a man who can last long enough to make sure it happens.

Hmm…now that begins to sound a bit more challenging.

So, here are some ideas that may help. I’m going to assume that most women need a finger or hand on their clitoris, or some other kind of clitoral stimulation, to reach orgasm, during intercourse or not. Whether or not a woman can come from vaginal thrusting alone may have more to do with the mystery of the G-spot and the reality – or otherwise – of the vaginal orgasm.

The idea here is to offer ideas about some sex positions that can help a woman reach orgasm during intercourse, one way or another.

First then, is the good old man on top or missionary position. You’ll have noticed, no doubt, that normally the penis doesn’t go anywhere near the clitoris during intercourse. But the “normal” man on top position can be modified so that there’s more clitoral stimulation, using what’s called the Coital Alignment Technique.

After the man enters his partner, face to face, him on top, he shifts his body higher up, so that his penis is entering her vagina from a sharper angle. The base of his penis will then be pressed against the area of her clitoris. The thing is, he doesn’t thrust. In fact, he pretty much lies on his partner with his body shifted up hers, and the couple rock their pelvises against each other until they both come.

This can also be tried with the woman on top, which is likely to be more successful if the man is heavy.

The next likely candidate for a magnificent orgasm is the woman on top position. The reason this can be good for her is that she can move at the pace, and adjust the angle and depth of penetration so that she gets the stimulation on her clitoris and vagina most likely to bring her to orgasm.

The same idea but with the woman facing away from the man is a position called the “Reverse Cowgirl”. You can work that name out for yourselves, I’m sure!

There are another two positions to consider if you’re into orgasmic intercourse. First off, if rear entry does it for you, there’s ample opportunity in this position for either partner to play with her clitoris during sex. Timing it so that she comes before he does is crucial, and he may need to slow down or stop thrusting during sex to allow her to get near her orgasm. If you time it right, you may even be able to reach your orgasms at the same time.

And finally, in this roll call of positions for orgasm, is the side by side, facing each other position. It’s much more romantic than the rear entry position, which some women think is a bit impersonal, and it allows for both gentle, slow lovemaking and faster thrusting. Either he or she can easily reach down and play with her clitoris, keeping the pace right until it’s time to climax.

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How to do certain things on Spicypage.com

•May 29, 2007 • 1 Comment

I have been asked a few time about how to do certain things on spicypage.com Asian girl spicypage

so rather than keep sending emails over and over  I thought I would try and help here 🙂  How to see all websites posted by a person on spicypage.com?  First you would click on the author/posters name and you will be sent to that personson profile page.

Look below their photo and you will see 4 tabs :

  • Voted On
  • Commented On
  • Posted
  • Author Of
  • By clicking each tab you will be able to see what that person has posted, commented, voted on and authored.

    If anyone can think of anything else please feel free to let me know.

                                                            Thanks thaidarling.com

    I would like feed back on this photo please.

    •May 29, 2007 • 9 Comments

    Asian Woman.jpg   If you would like to see more posts of pretty asian girls please let me know.  I will be adding interesting video clips a little later as well, of bangkok night life. Just write and give your suggestions

                                       thanks thaidarling.com

    Men’s Killer Dating Mistake!

    •May 28, 2007 • Leave a Comment

    brc-337314.jpggreetings from  www.thaidarling.com I ran across this story and wanted to share it with you guys.

    This is so true. Check out micks book too.

    “Men’s Killer Dating Mistake.” and how to avoid it!  

     By: Mick Jones

    Once you are good at meeting women online, or anywhere for that matter. The next step is to be able to qualify the lady quickly. By qualify I mean to decide whether to see her again and allow her into your life. This is a very important skill for many reasons.

    Here is the Killer mistake a lot of men make!

    They spend too much time with a woman they should have “disqualified” 20 minutes after they met her.
    Mainly because they’re glad to meet any woman who shows an interest in them.

    What’s the best way to avoid the pain and hassle of a bad partner?

    To be able to disqualify a future partner! Not easy I know.

    See, the men that are good with women, don’t waste their time and energy on someone they instinctively know is going to be trouble. These guys have good qualifying skills, being able to move on quickly from un-responsive or unsuitable women. Then spending their time with only highly qualified dates.

    This is ‘effective time management’ for producing the best results!

    So how do you qualify you ask?

    Mmmmhhh, good question and a skill not practiced by many.

    Let’s look at it and give an example.

    What men good with women do is to have clearly defined criteria and as soon as they identify a trait that is outside of their criteria, they politely discontinue interest and move on.

    You need to know what your desired outcome is,

    Whether it is finding one lady for a permanent one on one committed relationship. Or you may want adventure and good times without too much commitment. If you don’t decide your desired outcome, you can’t define your ideal dating partner. Once you do know your outcome, however, the next step is to define the criteria of the “ideal dating partner.”

    Once you have that criteria defined, you want to as Quickly as possible find out if a woman fits that criteria. If she doesn’t, then you need to spend your time identifying those who do. This is where most men make the ‘Killer mistake.’

    They stick with a woman they should “disqualify,” hoping she’ll develop the traits they’re looking for. If she doesn’t fit your criteria, decide and move on quickly. Then spend your valuable time and energy finding one who does.

    Heres a common example. If you’re looking to be married, and you’re dating a woman who says, “I just want to have some fun and meet people, and if it goes further, we’ll see what happens,” then you need to disqualify her. She’s looking for fun and adventure, not marriage, so she’ll be hard work to change to the traits you are looking for. And waste your valuable time.

    Fair enough? So you’ll need to find and spend time with the type of women that suits your criteria. Write your criteria down and look at it BEFORE you send kisses, winks and emails at online dating sites.

    If you just want to date and meet as many women as possible, which I did when I first went online to get experience, Your criteria can be small. However this gets frustrating and disappointing as you are not spending quality time with quality women. Then a year has gone by and you’ve had a lot of fun, but still not a really special, high quality woman in your life, that I’m sure you desire.

    So the key to avoid the ‘killer mistake’ with online dating or any dating, is to define what YOU WANT. Then put as much time and energy as you can with women who fit that criteria, quickly moving on from women who don’t. As hard and harsh as that may be, your success with women will be a direct result of how you manage your time! This will lead you to finding the type of woman who you want and look forward to spending time with.

    This leads to a feeling of well being, success and contentment.

    Good luck, I hope you’ve got value from this article.

    Mick Jones