Beautiful Asian and Thai girls

Being married to a Thai girl is the most wonderful thing the world.Nothing on earth can describe the feeling of your first bath from yourbeautiful Thai bride. She is so elegant and graceful, the way shemovesand speaks. Some of the most beautiful Asian girls you will ever see.www.thaidarling.com I’m not kidding, thousands of lonely men come to Thailand every yearlooking for a new sweetheart and Asian girls have become one of thecountry’s biggest exports. Odious as it may seem to some, we recognizethat many of you visiting this site are interested in Chiang Mai forthat very reason. Thais can be beautiful people; gracious, elegant,well-mannered, fun-loving, caring and sweet. Hopefully we can help youfind a long lasting partnership. Well, we’ve see enough happy and unhappy endings to understand thatanOccidental/Oriental match has a lot of potential for heartfelt joy,yetcultural misunderstandings and misplaced expectations often lead toallsorts of heartache, rip-offs and disillusionment. And, we’re not just talking here about foreign men with Thai girls;there are plenty of Western women we know of with Thai hubbies. Buteither way, it isn’t always an ideal match and opposing culturalbackgrounds lead to differing expectations from both sides. Thebiggestissue however is the gender inequality existing here, for this oftencreates hidden agendas. As much as you may be lonely, divorced, over the hill, devoid ofyouthful looks,fed up with the attitude of the opposite sex in yourcountry or whatever reason you come up with for being single, therearecountless lonely Asian women (and some men) here who have reasons oftheir own to want a “mia farang” (foreign wife). As a “financially empowered” Westerner, the cards are stacked inyourfavour, but you should also take the initiative to ensure that yourpartnership is a good one and guaranteed to last. Remember, most menendup taking their new wives back to their own country. It is far easierfor a foreigner to assimilate into Thailand than it is for a Thai tofitin back in your hometown. The lifestyles and cultural differences can be enormous and creditshould be given to the many Thai wives abroad who have quietly put upwith living there without the comfort of their fellow countrymenaroundthem; Thais are very gregarious people who prefer communal living toprivacy. So, where you do start looking? Firstly, don’t imagine you are goingtofind a potential wife in the bars and discos of the tourist areas.Mostof the girls you meet here will likely be prostitutes, or at least outfor financial gain. This is a service which is openly enjoyed here inThailand and the justifications for the sex industry offer convincingarguments which we won’t go into here. Your activities here areentirelyup to you, as long as you don’t imagine that the whole of Thailand islike Pattaya. Many coming here have found success with the internet, and anincreasingnumber of shy, decent, professional women are signing up to theseservices. Thais are web savvy and many engage in chat room discussionsto meet foreign friends. However, nothing beats the real thing whenmeeting others, and internet dating agencies can be quite deceptiveanddisappointing. By all means, make several acquaintances before coming but keep yourexpectations mooted, as people aren’t always what they appear to beonline. Perhaps set up several friends to meet and see what happens,butbe sure not to raise each of the girl’s expectations too much. Then there are the dating agencies, which are numerous in Bangkokandcan appear a little “sad”. Shopping for a wife in a catalogue seemsabsurd, but yet many find this the most practical way of solving aproblem in a short space of time. Be sensitive to the girls themselveswho may at times feel like they’re on a suspects parade. Many aredesperately trying to find a way out of poverty and may even beescortedwith their mothers. Others may be lonely professional women, it’sdifficult to tell, but the agencies are quite good at vetting theirbackgrounds. Don’t be foolish and imagine you can fall in love with and marrysomeonewhose English isn’t strong enough to express herself to you. Sure youcan send her to school, but by the time she’s fluent the wholerelationship might be splitting at the seams. We suggest you meet several people and see how things develop,ignoringthe fact that the first girl you meet is likely to treat you likeRomeoand make you feel like a million bucks. So will number two, three andfour; Thai ladies are brilliant at this. Also remember, they are”choosy” too, and you should be respectful if they aren’t interestedinyou. A more realistic but tougher way to meet a suitable partner here isineveryday life. This requires patience. We know guys who met theirsweetheart in malls, at the market, in restaurants, in the servicesindustry (hotel receptionists, tour guides, etc) and even doingbusiness. These are professional, regular girls who perhaps considerforeigners to be somewhat handsome but otherwise are simply mindingtheir own business. Just like liaisons in your own home country, this is natural and farmore likely to be genuine. Thais are sometimes shy but usually willingto befriend foreign people. You would need to be respectful of them(perhaps they already have a boyfriend) and patient. For manywhite-collar workers, there is a stigma attached to dating aforeigner.However, in the long run this is the most rewarding. Some of the most beautiful Thai women you will ever see. Thaidarlingisan International dating site for Foreign women and Asian girls seekingForeign men. View personal ads of young sexy beautiful Thai girls whowant to meet European and American men for dating and marriage. Asian girls andForeign women seeking single men in the United States and men fromaround the world. http://www.thaidarling.com/ Perfect wives, perfectbrides, perfect mate. No words can describe how wonderful it is beingmarried to a Thai girl. See for yourself at http://www.thaidarling.com/ By far, the group who have had the most success in finding a partnerinThailand are those who have come and lived here, taken the time tounderstand Thais and Thailand, learned the language and made inroadsinto social circles where they ultimately meet their perfect partner.Ifyou can’t afford to do this, then think of coming back several times;familiarize yourself with the place before takingthe plunge with anyone. Chiang Mai is full of happy cross-cultural relationships andfamilies,of both genders, but it has required a great deal of effort andunderstanding from both parties. It isn’t difficult to find a Thaigirlfriend, but it is difficult to find understanding and harmony withyour Thai partner. Also, getting rid a Thai girlfriend or boyfriend is far moredifficultthan getting one; by their nature (conditioned by the socialenvironmenthere), they can be possessive, jealous, violent, vindictive, and eventake to stalking you and your friends, so choose someone who is goingtobe mostly happy with you and remember to be a decent partner yourself;it’s easy to let your ego run away with you here in Thailand!

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~ by thaidarling on May 25, 2007.

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  2. well this is very useful… (at least for me)

    very thanks

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    Travel at Thailand

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