Mail order brides??

•May 27, 2007 • 1 Comment

              There is no single man who would not want to meet a woman who is beautiful, intelligent, educated, fit, stylish and sexy. All men want a girlfriend like this! The problem is there are not many girls possessing those qualities that are unattached and available. Girls like this usually have a string of admirers and an attitude. You might even think they are out of your league. Think again! In your country, this may be true… But the world is so much bigger than that! In some countries, things are exactly the opposite way around: there is a huge shortage of nice, intelligent and stable single men! Take Thailand for example: the latest statistics from The Economist show that there are only 88 men for 100 women! In Thailand alone, there are many more women than men! It means there are MANY WOMEN that will NEVER find a partner! This unique situation between the genders has women forced to perfect their looks in order to find and keep a mate. Check    : you will find there thousands of beautiful girls that are looking for a partner: well groomed, fashionable and stylish, they will leave you breathless. Read about their education and you will be stunned: most of them possess advanced university degrees. Don’t be surprised: about 60% of people in Thailand have college or university degrees, others have completed at least 2-year professional training.  They don’t have equivalents of associate or honors degrees, and the person has to complete at least 4-year degree, or they don’t receive ANY qualification. This is how the state convinces young people to complete their studies.  On Thai dating sites, you will find thousands women that are beautiful, intelligent, educated, fit, stylish and sexy – and at the same time unattached and available. And they are looking for nice, intelligent and stable guys – just like you! The bad news is, you will never be able to meet them… Why?, Because you never looked at Asian Girl dating sites. You have this attitude that “mail order brides” are something a decent man will never consider: it is only desperate losers that would look for a partner at such sites. You read in press horror stories about “mail order brides” and this phrase is strongly connected in your mind with such topics as violence, abuse, sexual exploitation, trafficking in women and immigration scams. You believe that men that seek wives abroad simply cannot find anybody in their own country and seek obedient, submissive wives. Do you? Well, then you are in for a wake up call. There is no such a thing as “Thailand or Asian mail order brides” – no more than there is Santa Claus! There are Asian women seeking suitable partners. Those women are not desperate to leave their country and are proud of their inheritance and culture. They are educated, intelligent, and smart. They are not going to become intimate submissive’ or maids. They will not tolerate infidelity or abuse. They truly seek SUITABLE partners and will not jump on anybody, just to get out of their misery. In fact, they do NOT consider their life miserable! On her average salary, a Thai woman can afford to attend live performances and beauty saloons a few times a month, buy best-selling books, latest fashion and Italian shoes. Actually, I have a much more exciting life in Thailand with overseas vacations and quality entertainment than I did before, living in the west! The same is applicable to many Asian women seeking partners abroad. They are articulate, sophisticated, well read and well traveled. Obedient, submissive “Asian mail order brides” do not exist! You don’t have to believe my word. Read what American men say about that:    P.S. Personally, I hate this label “mail order brides”. I believe it is a disgrace to imply a human being can be ordered as an item, and the sacred companionship of marriage may be purchased as an electrical toothbrush from mail order catalog. C’mon guys! So called “mail order brides” services do not sell women, they sell access to contact information of their members, that’s it – just like you join a local singles club and they give you contact details of people that may be interested in meeting you. Asian dating agencies also have socials like speed dating services where interested men and women can meet each other. Only men and women, themselves, decide whom they want to date. You cannot buy a bride! It is 21st century, pals! Wake up – and smell the roses! :-))


from the Google to you with love :)

•May 27, 2007 • Leave a Comment

   Submit your site to relevant directories such as the Open Directory Project and Yahoo!, as well as to other industry-specific expert sites.  Do a search on google for web directories relating to your category. Once you are listed on that directory be sure and submit your page their to google indexing as well.

PageRank Explained

PageRank relies on the uniquely democratic nature of the web by using its vast link structure as an indicator of an individual page’s value. In essence, Google interprets a link from page A to page B as a vote, by page A, for page B. But, Google looks at considerably more than the sheer volume of votes, or links a page receives; for example, it also analyzes the page that casts the vote. Votes cast by pages that are themselves “important” weigh more heavily and help to make other pages “important.” Using these and other factors, Google provides its views on pages’ relative importance.

Of course, important pages mean nothing to you if they don’t match your query. So, Google combines PageRank with sophisticated text-matching techniques to find pages that are both important and relevant to your search. Google goes far beyond the number of times a term appears on a page and examines dozens of aspects of the page’s content (and the content of the pages linking to it) to determine if it’s a good match for your query. ( this is per google )

Webmaster Guidelines

Webmaster Guidelines

Following these guidelines will help Google find, index, and rank your site. Even if you choose not to implement any of these suggestions, we strongly encourage you to pay very close attention to the “Quality Guidelines,” which outline some of the illicit practices that may lead to a site being removed entirely from the Google index or otherwise penalized. If a site has been penalized, it may no longer show up in results on or on any of Google’s partner sites.

When your site is ready:

  • Have other relevant sites link to yours.
  • Submit it to Google at
  • Submit a Sitemap as part of our Google webmaster tools. Google uses your Sitemap to learn about the structure of your site and to increase our coverage of your webpages.
  • Make sure all the sites that should know about your pages are aware your site is online.
  • Submit your site to relevant directories such as the Open Directory Project and Yahoo!, as well as to other industry-specific expert sites.

Design and content guidelines

  • Make a site with a clear hierarchy and text links. Every page should be reachable from at least one static text link.
  • Offer a site map to your users with links that point to the important parts of your site. If the site map is larger than 100 or so links, you may want to break the site map into separate pages.
  • Create a useful, information-rich site, and write pages that clearly and accurately describe your content.
  • Think about the words users would type to find your pages, and make sure that your site actually includes those words within it.
  • Try to use text instead of images to display important names, content, or links. The Google crawler doesn’t recognize text contained in images.
  • Make sure that your TITLE and ALT tags are descriptive and accurate.
  • Check for broken links and correct HTML.
  • If you decide to use dynamic pages (i.e., the URL contains a “?” character), be aware that not every search engine spider crawls dynamic pages as well as static pages. It helps to keep the parameters short and the number of them few.
  • Keep the links on a given page to a reasonable number (fewer than 100).

Technical guidelines

  • Use a text browser such as Lynx to examine your site, because most search engine spiders see your site much as Lynx would. If fancy features such as JavaScript, cookies, session IDs, frames, DHTML, or Flash keep you from seeing all of your site in a text browser, then search engine spiders may have trouble crawling your site.
  • Allow search bots to crawl your sites without session IDs or arguments that track their path through the site. These techniques are useful for tracking individual user behavior, but the access pattern of bots is entirely different. Using these techniques may result in incomplete indexing of your site, as bots may not be able to eliminate URLs that look different but actually point to the same page.
  • Make sure your web server supports the If-Modified-Since HTTP header. This feature allows your web server to tell Google whether your content has changed since we last crawled your site. Supporting this feature saves you bandwidth and overhead.
  • Make use of the robots.txt file on your web server. This file tells crawlers which directories can or cannot be crawled. Make sure it’s current for your site so that you don’t accidentally block the Googlebot crawler. Visit to learn how to instruct robots when they visit your site. You can test your robots.txt file to make sure you’re using it correctly with the robots.txt analysis tool available in Google webmaster tools.
  • If your company buys a content management system, make sure that the system can export your content so that search engine spiders can crawl your site.
  • Use robots.txt to prevent crawling of search results pages or other auto-generated pages that don’t add much value for users coming from search engines.

Quality guidelines

These quality guidelines cover the most common forms of deceptive or manipulative behavior, but Google may respond negatively to other misleading practices not listed here (e.g. tricking users by registering misspellings of well-known websites). It’s not safe to assume that just because a specific deceptive technique isn’t included on this page, Google approves of it. Webmasters who spend their energies upholding the spirit of the basic principles will provide a much better user experience and subsequently enjoy better ranking than those who spend their time looking for loopholes they can exploit.

If you believe that another site is abusing Google’s quality guidelines, please report that site at http://www. Google prefers developing scalable and automated solutions to problems, so we attempt to minimize hand-to-hand spam fighting. The spam reports we receive are used to create scalable algorithms that recognize and block future spam attempts.

Quality guidelines – basic principles

  • Make pages for users, not for search engines. Don’t deceive your users or present different content to search engines than you display to users, which is commonly referred to as “cloaking.”
  • Avoid tricks intended to improve search engine rankings. A good rule of thumb is whether you’d feel comfortable explaining what you’ve done to a website that competes with you. Another useful test is to ask, “Does this help my users? Would I do this if search engines didn’t exist?”
  • Don’t participate in link schemes designed to increase your site’s ranking or PageRank. In particular, avoid links to web spammers or “bad neighborhoods” on the web, as your own ranking may be affected adversely by those links.
  • Don’t use unauthorized computer programs to submit pages, check rankings, etc. Such programs consume computing resources and violate our Terms of Service. Google does not recommend the use of products such as WebPosition Gold™ that send automatic or programmatic queries to Google.

Quality guidelines – specific guidelines

  • Avoid hidden text or hidden links.
  • Don’t employ cloaking or sneaky redirects.
  • Don’t send automated queries to Google.
  • Don’t load pages with irrelevant words.
  • Don’t create multiple pages, subdomains, or domains with substantially duplicate content.
  • Don’t create pages that install viruses, trojans, or other badware.
  • Avoid “doorway” pages created just for search engines, or other “cookie cutter” approaches such as affiliate programs with little or no original content.
  • If your site participates in an affiliate program, make sure that your site adds value. Provide unique and relevant content that gives users a reason to visit your site first.

If a site doesn’t meet our quality guidelines, it may be blocked from the index. If you determine that your site doesn’t meet these guidelines, you can modify your site so that it does and request reinclusion

                   Hope this posting helps a tiny bit.

The first steps to get indexed

•May 26, 2007 • 2 Comments

First step would be to go to  2 – click on about google 3 – on the top righ under ” for site owners” click submit your content to google. 4 – top left, click add your URL to google’s index 5 – enter your site address , comments I leave blank, then click submit. wait a couple days and then return to google. type your site into the search box like this example search ” leave off http:www”, you should see it popup in the index.. For every site you link to and back to you should create another listing for your site “as long as both sides submit the new page to google for indexing”, should look something like this- Results 1 – 10 of about 843 for When you write blogs and articles be sure and use some or all of your key words, same description close to same title and same keywords or tags. This creates similarities and makes the link to you stronger. Example: a site about dogs would not want to link to a site about toothpicks, google would see it as irrelevant and give you a lower score even if the toothpick site had a ranking of 8. This blog is just for the friends I met on  so if your here and I dont know you,. close your eyes and dont read.

I will post often on this subject, Im no authority I have no degree in internet. I will just tell how I did it, Share your thoughts or tell me to hush. 🙂

Getting noticed on google, by a little asian girl

•May 26, 2007 • Leave a Comment

Google is the life blood of your websites. No matter what anyone tells you, search engine placement and rank is key to your success. There is no magic button to push and drive quality traffic to your site. You can join email promotions and see your mail simple placed in someones junk mail. You can join revolving links pages etc, will only give you 10 seconds of fame on your main page. The key is hard work. I ran across a site on called getting-noticed-on-google-1/#comment-137 it has several good tips there. I would recommend it as a must read for anyone starting a new site.
Google is the phone book of the internet and we all know how life would suck without a phone directory.
Do searches on sites that promote themselves as authority in giving advice on google rank and see their ranks. Check keywords and number of pages associated with that key word on google.
example: ” Asian girls ” one of my main key words. There are 19,600,000 listings of this key word and  ranks between 1 and 4 up and down.
key word ” Asian women ” 73,600,000 listings rank 1 to 3
keyword ” Thai girls ” 1,666,000 listings rank 1 to 2
keyword ” Thai women ” 2,430,000 listings rank 1 to 2

If you are checking these key words on google as you look at the pages you may see  and which are also mine. These are suport sites built and promoted to strengthen the main. After a few years of hard work even the support sites begin generating cash flow.
I think I will start posting a little on this subject often meybe Im helpin maybe Im not, I just like to talk :p

Beautiful Asian and Thai girls

•May 25, 2007 • 2 Comments

Being married to a Thai girl is the most wonderful thing the world.Nothing on earth can describe the feeling of your first bath from yourbeautiful Thai bride. She is so elegant and graceful, the way shemovesand speaks. Some of the most beautiful Asian girls you will ever I’m not kidding, thousands of lonely men come to Thailand every yearlooking for a new sweetheart and Asian girls have become one of thecountry’s biggest exports. Odious as it may seem to some, we recognizethat many of you visiting this site are interested in Chiang Mai forthat very reason. Thais can be beautiful people; gracious, elegant,well-mannered, fun-loving, caring and sweet. Hopefully we can help youfind a long lasting partnership. Well, we’ve see enough happy and unhappy endings to understand thatanOccidental/Oriental match has a lot of potential for heartfelt joy,yetcultural misunderstandings and misplaced expectations often lead toallsorts of heartache, rip-offs and disillusionment. And, we’re not just talking here about foreign men with Thai girls;there are plenty of Western women we know of with Thai hubbies. Buteither way, it isn’t always an ideal match and opposing culturalbackgrounds lead to differing expectations from both sides. Thebiggestissue however is the gender inequality existing here, for this oftencreates hidden agendas. As much as you may be lonely, divorced, over the hill, devoid ofyouthful looks,fed up with the attitude of the opposite sex in yourcountry or whatever reason you come up with for being single, therearecountless lonely Asian women (and some men) here who have reasons oftheir own to want a “mia farang” (foreign wife). As a “financially empowered” Westerner, the cards are stacked inyourfavour, but you should also take the initiative to ensure that yourpartnership is a good one and guaranteed to last. Remember, most menendup taking their new wives back to their own country. It is far easierfor a foreigner to assimilate into Thailand than it is for a Thai tofitin back in your hometown. The lifestyles and cultural differences can be enormous and creditshould be given to the many Thai wives abroad who have quietly put upwith living there without the comfort of their fellow countrymenaroundthem; Thais are very gregarious people who prefer communal living toprivacy. So, where you do start looking? Firstly, don’t imagine you are goingtofind a potential wife in the bars and discos of the tourist areas.Mostof the girls you meet here will likely be prostitutes, or at least outfor financial gain. This is a service which is openly enjoyed here inThailand and the justifications for the sex industry offer convincingarguments which we won’t go into here. Your activities here areentirelyup to you, as long as you don’t imagine that the whole of Thailand islike Pattaya. Many coming here have found success with the internet, and anincreasingnumber of shy, decent, professional women are signing up to theseservices. Thais are web savvy and many engage in chat room discussionsto meet foreign friends. However, nothing beats the real thing whenmeeting others, and internet dating agencies can be quite deceptiveanddisappointing. By all means, make several acquaintances before coming but keep yourexpectations mooted, as people aren’t always what they appear to beonline. Perhaps set up several friends to meet and see what happens,butbe sure not to raise each of the girl’s expectations too much. Then there are the dating agencies, which are numerous in Bangkokandcan appear a little “sad”. Shopping for a wife in a catalogue seemsabsurd, but yet many find this the most practical way of solving aproblem in a short space of time. Be sensitive to the girls themselveswho may at times feel like they’re on a suspects parade. Many aredesperately trying to find a way out of poverty and may even beescortedwith their mothers. Others may be lonely professional women, it’sdifficult to tell, but the agencies are quite good at vetting theirbackgrounds. Don’t be foolish and imagine you can fall in love with and marrysomeonewhose English isn’t strong enough to express herself to you. Sure youcan send her to school, but by the time she’s fluent the wholerelationship might be splitting at the seams. We suggest you meet several people and see how things develop,ignoringthe fact that the first girl you meet is likely to treat you likeRomeoand make you feel like a million bucks. So will number two, three andfour; Thai ladies are brilliant at this. Also remember, they are”choosy” too, and you should be respectful if they aren’t interestedinyou. A more realistic but tougher way to meet a suitable partner here isineveryday life. This requires patience. We know guys who met theirsweetheart in malls, at the market, in restaurants, in the servicesindustry (hotel receptionists, tour guides, etc) and even doingbusiness. These are professional, regular girls who perhaps considerforeigners to be somewhat handsome but otherwise are simply mindingtheir own business. Just like liaisons in your own home country, this is natural and farmore likely to be genuine. Thais are sometimes shy but usually willingto befriend foreign people. You would need to be respectful of them(perhaps they already have a boyfriend) and patient. For manywhite-collar workers, there is a stigma attached to dating aforeigner.However, in the long run this is the most rewarding. Some of the most beautiful Thai women you will ever see. Thaidarlingisan International dating site for Foreign women and Asian girls seekingForeign men. View personal ads of young sexy beautiful Thai girls whowant to meet European and American men for dating and marriage. Asian girls andForeign women seeking single men in the United States and men fromaround the world. Perfect wives, perfectbrides, perfect mate. No words can describe how wonderful it is beingmarried to a Thai girl. See for yourself at By far, the group who have had the most success in finding a partnerinThailand are those who have come and lived here, taken the time tounderstand Thais and Thailand, learned the language and made inroadsinto social circles where they ultimately meet their perfect partner.Ifyou can’t afford to do this, then think of coming back several times;familiarize yourself with the place before takingthe plunge with anyone. Chiang Mai is full of happy cross-cultural relationships andfamilies,of both genders, but it has required a great deal of effort andunderstanding from both parties. It isn’t difficult to find a Thaigirlfriend, but it is difficult to find understanding and harmony withyour Thai partner. Also, getting rid a Thai girlfriend or boyfriend is far moredifficultthan getting one; by their nature (conditioned by the socialenvironmenthere), they can be possessive, jealous, violent, vindictive, and eventake to stalking you and your friends, so choose someone who is goingtobe mostly happy with you and remember to be a decent partner yourself;it’s easy to let your ego run away with you here in Thailand!