Why Some White Guys like Asian Girls

There is one primary reason that white guys and Asian and black guys too, are attracted to beautiful Asian girls.

It’s the packaging. The package, and the stereotypes conveyed by the package are what hold the major appeal.

They’re generally slim, and that means slim all over. You seldom see an Asian girl who’s top-heavy, or bottom heavy, or particularly curved out of proportion in any way.

The shape and angle of their eyes produces an illusion of flirtatiousness and subservience or submissiveness – they are permanently, whether they choose to or not, looking from beneath lashes

The shape of their face tends to to be rounded, with taut skin, and their features tend to be small and delicate within that rounded frame – to the extent of being doll-like, when cosmetics are used to emphasize.

They are petite. You are not going to find an Asian girl who towers over anyone. Unlike some larger boned structured girls from the west.

They tend to have high, even fluting, voices in some instances the sounds of their voices in native tongue can almost sound of music.

What this adds up to is an overall impression of being childlike, and not in a way that calls to a pedophile response, particularly; because they are usually clearly adult, but in a way that stimulates the natural/socialized response of a “strong” male to protect what is apparently fragile. An Asian girl may be hard as nails – just like her Caucasian counterpart – but her combination of size, smooth skin, slimness, upward glance and childlike voice will make her present as intensely “feminine” in the old damsel in distress fashion, right before she beats the shit out of you on the living room floor. This is especially true, of course, in girls raised within Asian cultures, which emphasize specifically feminine behaviors’ for women, but is also evident in Asian girls raised in Western traditions.

This is not meant as any kind of derogatory judgment of men, or Asian girls, but an analysis of the artifice of nature. The physical peculiarities of the young Asian female are such that she tends to present to men partly as a little girl – and nothing is more guaranteed to arouse a tender, protective response than a girl-child — and partly as a flirt, sexually available and challenging but ultimately non-threatening. It’s hardly surprising, then, that men are attracted.

You’ll note that throughout, I’ve used the word “girl”, rather than “woman”. This is because with age, the particular attraction of Asian over other races of women fades fast. When the illusion of childishness disappears, so does the intense aura of femininity, slimness becomes gauntness and tendency to lack curves can often lead to an almost genderless appearance in middle-age and beyond, where other races of women retain a greater level of feminine allure (Yoko Ono, as compared to Susan Sarandon, for example).

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Want to Become Irresistible to Women ?

Are you a believer in the incredible power of words? The following is a simple self confidence technique that really works to increase your confidence and attractiveness. Give this a go and see how you can really increase your sex appeal.

Have you noticed that women are turned off men that lack confidence? They find such men just not attractive, men that are nervous, stammer or are putting on an act. Most women are very sensitive to this type of thing. Good confidence is real turn on to a woman.

The more a woman is 10 out of 10, the more insecure most men will become.

Most women seem to be attracted to a strong masculine but emotionally expressive man, which allows them to surrender and let go, especially in sex. They want to feel safe. The bad news is that if you go on and meet your date with your 10 out of 10 woman in a nervous state, she’ll smell it a mile away. That is assuming you got her to say yes to a date in the first place.

There is a deep biological basis to this. Women are child bearers and have nurturing qualities that have a genetic basis. Look at the differences in young girls and boys play to see this. Young boys play war games and girls play marriage games. Women want a strong man to provide and help look after the children in a stable relationship.

Really hot women usually test men in some way to see if they are up to the challenge and who do not fold like a wimp. One way men fold is to break the eye contact with a new woman when first meeting. Also, a hot woman gets asked out many times a day. Usually a man will say, “Gee you are beautiful, can I ask you out?”

Imaging been approached like that many times a day and you can see why the attractive woman will just turn away with such a lame approach. I have also noticed the power of a two letter word. Men that say the simple word NO will be rare around very sexy women. Most men are too scared and needy to just say no to things that their woman wants but they do not want.

So what are the 7 words that help to make you more irresistible to women? These words are very useful when you have a hot date lined up and want to feel more confident and at ease.

So before you meet your date or even before you ask her out say these words…

I love myself and I am irresistible.

Now this might just seem like positive thinking but if you say this many times each day, you will start to feel this way. Think of how many times a day you put yourself down in some way by some sort of negative thinking, especially around hot women. It is important to do the exercise each day for at least a week.

When repeating this affirmation, it is very important to really feel in your body how an irresistible man would be. How would he stand and talk and what would his body language be. How would he engage the women by his eye gaze? Really start to feel in your body what an irresistible man is like.

When you repeat this self confidence technique each day your body will actually learn and feel what an irresistible man is. When you are feeling like this in your body, women will be attracted to you and not even know why. If you really love yourself, women will feel this and feel you will be able to love them too.

Relationships will become more about giving and less about neediness. The result is magic when two come together just to give and love. Long, loving relationships are the result. When you love in freedom and really give your partner total permission to be herself or himself, they will never leave you.

Another way to create this feeling of self-love is to imagine back in your past when you were totally successful with a women. We all have something from our past when we felt on top of the world and this radiated out. When we want to feel powerful, just turn your mind back to this situation and imagine in again. Again try to feel what it felt like in your body. Breathe it in to your belly.

I hope this simple self confidence technique will help you increase your self-confidence and confidence and lead to more dating success.

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Author: Maurice Tate

The behavior of women and what they want.

   The behavior of women is as much of a mystery to men as that of men is to women. However, one thing is certain. The women love to be wooed. They want to be pursued. They want to be courted. They want men to try and win their affection. It’s a great psychological game that both men and women play. The winners enjoy it; the losers end up wondering what went wrong.

To end up as winner men need to understand what women want. Here is a list of seven qualities that every woman expects to see in their men:

1. Well groomed
Do women pay attention to the way a man is dressed?
Do women want men to open doors for them?

Just as men like their women to be pretty, women like their men to be well groomed. They expect their men to be courteous, well behaved and well mannered. Among other things, they expect them to know the social graces. They also expect them to be well dressed, and in tune with the fashion of the day. Men who are loud or bawdy are unlikely to win the attention of sensitive women. The same applies to those men who don’t pay sufficient attention to the way they look.

2. Good listener
Should men do what women want?
Listen carefully to what a woman says

All women want their men to pay attention to what they are saying. Men may not agree with their thinking but they should not make the mistake of looking bored or causal. They must pay attention, even if they don’t intend to do what their women want. The very fact that their point of view was considered before a decision was taken is enough to make the women happy. It is the basis of a strong relationship.

3. Good in bed
What do women want in bed?
Do women like to be forced?
How can women be made happy?

Every woman wants her man to be good in bed. They want to be aroused, and to be sexually fulfilled. The relationship has to be equal in the bed. The man must make an honest effort to fulfill the sexual needs of his women He should, however, not take advantage of a relationship. But he should respect those days when the woman wants to stay off. Women don’t like to be pushed into sex unless they are in a mood to do so. They would much rather prefer being cajoled and cuddled instead of being rushed into sex.

4. Honest and sincere
Do women want to know everything about their men?
Should men tell everything to women?

Two qualities that women value in their men are honesty and sincerity. They don’t want their men to cheat on them or to hold back anything from them. They would like to be equal partners in both the joys and sorrows of their men. Very often men try to hold back their problems related to work or their finances. This is not a good policy. Women feel more wanted and involved when their men take them into confidence. Men should also not try to delude women into false notions. They must gently inform them of their problems without being blunt or cruel. No woman wants to be told that she is ugly, fat or dumb. But, at the same time, they would not like their men to lie to them about their looks.

5. Stable career
How important is financial stability?
Are women after successful men?

Women want stability in their lives. They don’t want to be in a situation where they are forced to scrounge for favors. They would like their men to take care of all basic necessities of life. They would therefore prefer men who are successful and well organized. However, this does not mean that they want to hook the rich and the well placed. This is a wrong notion. Money and success alone is not enough to satisfy a woman.

6. Love for surprises
Should men give lavish gifts to win the love of women?
Gifts that women cherish the most

No woman wants to be tied to home and children. She would like some excitement in her life. This is where men need to be imaginative and thoughtful. The surprises need not be big; they can be as simple as enjoying an evening at the theatre, followed by a dinner at her favorite restaurant or it can be driving down to a resort at the weekend. The joy is multiplied if these bonuses come unannounced.

7. Intelligent and witty
Are witty men more charming?
How does intelligence matter in a relationship?

Women like their men to charm them. They would like them to be intelligent and witty, who can liven up the evenings and make a room come alive. Men who are dull and boring or too obsessed with their own musings are unlikely to enchant women. Women like men who are willing to chat with them on their wavelength.

Sex Positions For The Best Sex Ever

                                                                                         

Popular imagery can make us all feel inferior and inadequate when it comes to getting into bed and making love. Men “should” be studs who thrust away for hours until their lover collapses in a moaning exhausted heap, after of course she’s had five mind-blowing orgasms in a row. Women “should” be moaning goddesses who come as their man thrusts deep into them while he holds them firmly and takes them to ecstasy. At least, that’s what you might think if you get your ideas of lovemaking from most romantic movies.

(If you get your ideas about sex from porn films, then you might have an even more unrealistic view of sex. Men with nine inch erections dispassionately using women for their own pleasure is definitely not normal.)

The truth, of course, as many of us suspect from our own experience of sex, is that most men come quite quickly, and many don’t know how to control their ejaculation – or they’ve long since given up trying to – while most women never come at all during vaginal intercourse. That may be hard to believe; maybe you even think there’s something wrong with you if you’re a man who can’t make love for ages or you’re a woman who can’t come during intercourse, but the research confirms these things are normal.

One survey, by http://www.VulvaVelvet.org revealed that less than 20% of women (i.e. 1 woman in 5) always expects to come during intercourse without any additonal clitoral stimulation. Other surveys have produced similar results: about 20 years ago, Shere Hite’s research showed that only 26% of women were able to reach orgasm during intercourse without clitoral stimulation. Most of the rest never did, and then only if they had a helping hand on their clitoris. And nothing seems to have changed as time has gone by!

However, maybe this is missing the point. Maybe we should be asking, “Does this matter?” I guess the answer depends on what each woman wants. If what she actually wants is to have sex last longer, for it to involve more touching, carressing, oral sex and intimacy before penetration, and to have one or more orgasms during this time, then the solution lies in her man taking a different approach to sex. If, however, what she wants is to have an orgasm during vaginal intercourse, then she needs a sex position that is more likely to deliver it – and a man who can last long enough to make sure it happens.

Hmm…now that begins to sound a bit more challenging.

So, here are some ideas that may help. I’m going to assume that most women need a finger or hand on their clitoris, or some other kind of clitoral stimulation, to reach orgasm, during intercourse or not. Whether or not a woman can come from vaginal thrusting alone may have more to do with the mystery of the G-spot and the reality – or otherwise – of the vaginal orgasm.

The idea here is to offer ideas about some sex positions that can help a woman reach orgasm during intercourse, one way or another.

First then, is the good old man on top or missionary position. You’ll have noticed, no doubt, that normally the penis doesn’t go anywhere near the clitoris during intercourse. But the “normal” man on top position can be modified so that there’s more clitoral stimulation, using what’s called the Coital Alignment Technique.

After the man enters his partner, face to face, him on top, he shifts his body higher up, so that his penis is entering her vagina from a sharper angle. The base of his penis will then be pressed against the area of her clitoris. The thing is, he doesn’t thrust. In fact, he pretty much lies on his partner with his body shifted up hers, and the couple rock their pelvises against each other until they both come.

This can also be tried with the woman on top, which is likely to be more successful if the man is heavy.

The next likely candidate for a magnificent orgasm is the woman on top position. The reason this can be good for her is that she can move at the pace, and adjust the angle and depth of penetration so that she gets the stimulation on her clitoris and vagina most likely to bring her to orgasm.

The same idea but with the woman facing away from the man is a position called the “Reverse Cowgirl”. You can work that name out for yourselves, I’m sure!

There are another two positions to consider if you’re into orgasmic intercourse. First off, if rear entry does it for you, there’s ample opportunity in this position for either partner to play with her clitoris during sex. Timing it so that she comes before he does is crucial, and he may need to slow down or stop thrusting during sex to allow her to get near her orgasm. If you time it right, you may even be able to reach your orgasms at the same time.

And finally, in this roll call of positions for orgasm, is the side by side, facing each other position. It’s much more romantic than the rear entry position, which some women think is a bit impersonal, and it allows for both gentle, slow lovemaking and faster thrusting. Either he or she can easily reach down and play with her clitoris, keeping the pace right until it’s time to climax.

By: Rod Phillips

How to do certain things on Spicypage.com

I have been asked a few time about how to do certain things on spicypage.com

so rather than keep sending emails over and over  I thought I would try and help here 🙂  How to see all websites posted by a person on spicypage.com?  First you would click on the author/posters name and you will be sent to that personson profile page.

Look below their photo and you will see 4 tabs :

Voted On

Commented On

Posted

Author Of

By clicking each tab you will be able to see what that person has posted, commented, voted on and authored.

If anyone can think of anything else please feel free to let me know.

                                                        Thanks thaidarling.com

I would like feed back on this photo please.

   If you would like to see more posts of pretty asian girls please let me know.  I will be adding interesting video clips a little later as well, of bangkok night life. Just write and give your suggestions

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Men’s Killer Dating Mistake!

greetings from  www.thaidarling.com I ran across this story and wanted to share it with you guys.

This is so true. Check out micks book too.

“Men’s Killer Dating Mistake.” and how to avoid it!  

 By: Mick Jones

Once you are good at meeting women online, or anywhere for that matter. The next step is to be able to qualify the lady quickly. By qualify I mean to decide whether to see her again and allow her into your life. This is a very important skill for many reasons.

Here is the Killer mistake a lot of men make!

They spend too much time with a woman they should have “disqualified” 20 minutes after they met her.
Mainly because they’re glad to meet any woman who shows an interest in them.

What’s the best way to avoid the pain and hassle of a bad partner?

To be able to disqualify a future partner! Not easy I know.

See, the men that are good with women, don’t waste their time and energy on someone they instinctively know is going to be trouble. These guys have good qualifying skills, being able to move on quickly from un-responsive or unsuitable women. Then spending their time with only highly qualified dates.

This is ‘effective time management’ for producing the best results!

So how do you qualify you ask?

Mmmmhhh, good question and a skill not practiced by many.

Let’s look at it and give an example.

What men good with women do is to have clearly defined criteria and as soon as they identify a trait that is outside of their criteria, they politely discontinue interest and move on.

You need to know what your desired outcome is,

Whether it is finding one lady for a permanent one on one committed relationship. Or you may want adventure and good times without too much commitment. If you don’t decide your desired outcome, you can’t define your ideal dating partner. Once you do know your outcome, however, the next step is to define the criteria of the “ideal dating partner.”

Once you have that criteria defined, you want to as Quickly as possible find out if a woman fits that criteria. If she doesn’t, then you need to spend your time identifying those who do. This is where most men make the ‘Killer mistake.’

They stick with a woman they should “disqualify,” hoping she’ll develop the traits they’re looking for. If she doesn’t fit your criteria, decide and move on quickly. Then spend your valuable time and energy finding one who does.

Heres a common example. If you’re looking to be married, and you’re dating a woman who says, “I just want to have some fun and meet people, and if it goes further, we’ll see what happens,” then you need to disqualify her. She’s looking for fun and adventure, not marriage, so she’ll be hard work to change to the traits you are looking for. And waste your valuable time.

Fair enough? So you’ll need to find and spend time with the type of women that suits your criteria. Write your criteria down and look at it BEFORE you send kisses, winks and emails at online dating sites.

If you just want to date and meet as many women as possible, which I did when I first went online to get experience, Your criteria can be small. However this gets frustrating and disappointing as you are not spending quality time with quality women. Then a year has gone by and you’ve had a lot of fun, but still not a really special, high quality woman in your life, that I’m sure you desire.

So the key to avoid the ‘killer mistake’ with online dating or any dating, is to define what YOU WANT. Then put as much time and energy as you can with women who fit that criteria, quickly moving on from women who don’t. As hard and harsh as that may be, your success with women will be a direct result of how you manage your time! This will lead you to finding the type of woman who you want and look forward to spending time with.

This leads to a feeling of well being, success and contentment.

Good luck, I hope you’ve got value from this article.

Regards
Mick Jones
Author
http://www.howtomeetwomenontheinternet.com

Mail order brides??

              There is no single man who would not want to meet a woman who is beautiful, intelligent, educated, fit, stylish and sexy. All men want a girlfriend like this! The problem is there are not many girls possessing those qualities that are unattached and available. Girls like this usually have a string of admirers and an attitude. You might even think they are out of your league. Think again! In your country, this may be true… But the world is so much bigger than that! In some countries, things are exactly the opposite way around: there is a huge shortage of nice, intelligent and stable single men! Take Thailand for example: the latest statistics from The Economist show that there are only 88 men for 100 women! In Thailand alone, there are many more women than men! It means there are MANY WOMEN that will NEVER find a partner! This unique situation between the genders has women forced to perfect their looks in order to find and keep a mate. Check http://www.thaidarling.com    : you will find there thousands of beautiful girls that are looking for a partner: well groomed, fashionable and stylish, they will leave you breathless. Read about their education and you will be stunned: most of them possess advanced university degrees. Don’t be surprised: about 60% of people in Thailand have college or university degrees, others have completed at least 2-year professional training.  They don’t have equivalents of associate or honors degrees, and the person has to complete at least 4-year degree, or they don’t receive ANY qualification. This is how the state convinces young people to complete their studies.  On Thai dating sites, you will find thousands women that are beautiful, intelligent, educated, fit, stylish and sexy – and at the same time unattached and available. And they are looking for nice, intelligent and stable guys – just like you! The bad news is, you will never be able to meet them… Why?, Because you never looked at Asian Girl dating sites. You have this attitude that “mail order brides” are something a decent man will never consider: it is only desperate losers that would look for a partner at such sites. You read in press horror stories about “mail order brides” and this phrase is strongly connected in your mind with such topics as violence, abuse, sexual exploitation, trafficking in women and immigration scams. You believe that men that seek wives abroad simply cannot find anybody in their own country and seek obedient, submissive wives. Do you? Well, then you are in for a wake up call. There is no such a thing as “Thailand or Asian mail order brides” – no more than there is Santa Claus! There are Asian women seeking suitable partners. Those women are not desperate to leave their country and are proud of their inheritance and culture. They are educated, intelligent, and smart. They are not going to become intimate submissive’ or maids. They will not tolerate infidelity or abuse. They truly seek SUITABLE partners and will not jump on anybody, just to get out of their misery. In fact, they do NOT consider their life miserable! On her average salary, a Thai woman can afford to attend live performances and beauty saloons a few times a month, buy best-selling books, latest fashion and Italian shoes. Actually, I have a much more exciting life in Thailand with overseas vacations and quality entertainment than I did before, living in the west! The same is applicable to many Asian women seeking partners abroad. They are articulate, sophisticated, well read and well traveled. Obedient, submissive “Asian mail order brides” do not exist! You don’t have to believe my word. Read what American men say about that:   http://www.thaidarling.com/success_relationship.htm    P.S. Personally, I hate this label “mail order brides”. I believe it is a disgrace to imply a human being can be ordered as an item, and the sacred companionship of marriage may be purchased as an electrical toothbrush from mail order catalog. C’mon guys! So called “mail order brides” services do not sell women, they sell access to contact information of their members, that’s it – just like you join a local singles club and they give you contact details of people that may be interested in meeting you. Asian dating agencies also have socials like speed dating services where interested men and women can meet each other. Only men and women, themselves, decide whom they want to date. You cannot buy a bride! It is 21st century, pals! Wake up – and smell the roses! :-))

from the Google to you with love :)

   Submit your site to relevant directories such as the Open Directory Project and Yahoo!, as well as to other industry-specific expert sites.  Do a search on google for web directories relating to your category. Once you are listed on that directory be sure and submit your page their to google indexing as well.

PageRank Explained

PageRank relies on the uniquely democratic nature of the web by using its vast link structure as an indicator of an individual page’s value. In essence, Google interprets a link from page A to page B as a vote, by page A, for page B. But, Google looks at considerably more than the sheer volume of votes, or links a page receives; for example, it also analyzes the page that casts the vote. Votes cast by pages that are themselves “important” weigh more heavily and help to make other pages “important.” Using these and other factors, Google provides its views on pages’ relative importance.

Of course, important pages mean nothing to you if they don’t match your query. So, Google combines PageRank with sophisticated text-matching techniques to find pages that are both important and relevant to your search. Google goes far beyond the number of times a term appears on a page and examines dozens of aspects of the page’s content (and the content of the pages linking to it) to determine if it’s a good match for your query. ( this is per google )

Webmaster Guidelines

Webmaster Guidelines

Following these guidelines will help Google find, index, and rank your site. Even if you choose not to implement any of these suggestions, we strongly encourage you to pay very close attention to the “Quality Guidelines,” which outline some of the illicit practices that may lead to a site being removed entirely from the Google index or otherwise penalized. If a site has been penalized, it may no longer show up in results on Google.com or on any of Google’s partner sites.

• Design, content, and technical guidelines
• Quality guidelines

When your site is ready:

• Have other relevant sites link to yours.
• Submit it to Google at http://www.google.com/addurl.html.
• Submit a Sitemap as part of our Google webmaster tools. Google uses your Sitemap to learn about the structure of your site and to increase our coverage of your webpages.
• Make sure all the sites that should know about your pages are aware your site is online.
• Submit your site to relevant directories such as the Open Directory Project and Yahoo!, as well as to other industry-specific expert sites.

Design and content guidelines

• Make a site with a clear hierarchy and text links. Every page should be reachable from at least one static text link.
• Offer a site map to your users with links that point to the important parts of your site. If the site map is larger than 100 or so links, you may want to break the site map into separate pages.
• Create a useful, information-rich site, and write pages that clearly and accurately describe your content.
• Think about the words users would type to find your pages, and make sure that your site actually includes those words within it.
• Try to use text instead of images to display important names, content, or links. The Google crawler doesn’t recognize text contained in images.
• Make sure that your TITLE and ALT tags are descriptive and accurate.
• Check for broken links and correct HTML.
• If you decide to use dynamic pages (i.e., the URL contains a “?” character), be aware that not every search engine spider crawls dynamic pages as well as static pages. It helps to keep the parameters short and the number of them few.
• Keep the links on a given page to a reasonable number (fewer than 100).

Technical guidelines

• Use a text browser such as Lynx to examine your site, because most search engine spiders see your site much as Lynx would. If fancy features such as JavaScript, cookies, session IDs, frames, DHTML, or Flash keep you from seeing all of your site in a text browser, then search engine spiders may have trouble crawling your site.
• Allow search bots to crawl your sites without session IDs or arguments that track their path through the site. These techniques are useful for tracking individual user behavior, but the access pattern of bots is entirely different. Using these techniques may result in incomplete indexing of your site, as bots may not be able to eliminate URLs that look different but actually point to the same page.
• Make sure your web server supports the If-Modified-Since HTTP header. This feature allows your web server to tell Google whether your content has changed since we last crawled your site. Supporting this feature saves you bandwidth and overhead.
• Make use of the robots.txt file on your web server. This file tells crawlers which directories can or cannot be crawled. Make sure it’s current for your site so that you don’t accidentally block the Googlebot crawler. Visit http://www.robotstxt.org/wc/faq.html to learn how to instruct robots when they visit your site. You can test your robots.txt file to make sure you’re using it correctly with the robots.txt analysis tool available in Google webmaster tools.
• If your company buys a content management system, make sure that the system can export your content so that search engine spiders can crawl your site.
• Use robots.txt to prevent crawling of search results pages or other auto-generated pages that don’t add much value for users coming from search engines.

Quality guidelines

These quality guidelines cover the most common forms of deceptive or manipulative behavior, but Google may respond negatively to other misleading practices not listed here (e.g. tricking users by registering misspellings of well-known websites). It’s not safe to assume that just because a specific deceptive technique isn’t included on this page, Google approves of it. Webmasters who spend their energies upholding the spirit of the basic principles will provide a much better user experience and subsequently enjoy better ranking than those who spend their time looking for loopholes they can exploit.

If you believe that another site is abusing Google’s quality guidelines, please report that site at http://www. google.com/contact/spamreport.html. Google prefers developing scalable and automated solutions to problems, so we attempt to minimize hand-to-hand spam fighting. The spam reports we receive are used to create scalable algorithms that recognize and block future spam attempts.

Quality guidelines – basic principles

• Make pages for users, not for search engines. Don’t deceive your users or present different content to search engines than you display to users, which is commonly referred to as “cloaking.”
• Avoid tricks intended to improve search engine rankings. A good rule of thumb is whether you’d feel comfortable explaining what you’ve done to a website that competes with you. Another useful test is to ask, “Does this help my users? Would I do this if search engines didn’t exist?”
• Don’t participate in link schemes designed to increase your site’s ranking or PageRank. In particular, avoid links to web spammers or “bad neighborhoods” on the web, as your own ranking may be affected adversely by those links.
• Don’t use unauthorized computer programs to submit pages, check rankings, etc. Such programs consume computing resources and violate our Terms of Service. Google does not recommend the use of products such as WebPosition Gold™ that send automatic or programmatic queries to Google.

Quality guidelines – specific guidelines

• Avoid hidden text or hidden links.
• Don’t employ cloaking or sneaky redirects.
• Don’t send automated queries to Google.
• Don’t load pages with irrelevant words.
• Don’t create multiple pages, subdomains, or domains with substantially duplicate content.
• Don’t create pages that install viruses, trojans, or other badware.
• Avoid “doorway” pages created just for search engines, or other “cookie cutter” approaches such as affiliate programs with little or no original content.
• If your site participates in an affiliate program, make sure that your site adds value. Provide unique and relevant content that gives users a reason to visit your site first.

If a site doesn’t meet our quality guidelines, it may be blocked from the index. If you determine that your site doesn’t meet these guidelines, you can modify your site so that it does and request reinclusion. 

                   Hope this posting helps a tiny bit.

The first steps to get indexed

First step would be to go to http://www.google.com  2 – click on about google 3 – on the top righ under ” for site owners” click submit your content to google. 4 – top left, click add your URL to google’s index 5 – enter your site address , comments I leave blank, then click submit. wait a couple days and then return to google. type your site into the search box like this example search thaidarling.com ” leave off http:www”, you should see it popup in the index.. For every site you link to and back to you should create another listing for your site “as long as both sides submit the new page to google for indexing”, should look something like this- Results 1 – 10 of about 843 for thaidarling.com When you write blogs and articles be sure and use some or all of your key words, same description close to same title and same keywords or tags. This creates similarities and makes the link to you stronger. Example: a site about dogs would not want to link to a site about toothpicks, google would see it as irrelevant and give you a lower score even if the toothpick site had a ranking of 8. This blog is just for the friends I met on http://www.spicypage.com  so if your here and I dont know you,. close your eyes and dont read.

I will post often on this subject, Im no authority I have no degree in internet. I will just tell how I did it, Share your thoughts or tell me to hush. 🙂